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The Value Of Good Conversation
One of the biggest privileges we have as homo sapiens is the ability to communicate with one another in deep and meaningful ways. No other living creatures have the ability to relate with one another on the level that homo sapiens do. While there are many ways that we experience depth in relationship, few things are as significant and powerful in our search for connection as worthy conversation.
If you think about it, it is quite incredible that homo sapiens have the abilitiy to grow up in entirely separate households, cities and sometimes cultures and still be able to have intelligent and meaningful conversation with one another. A child born in the center of London and a child born in the middle of nowhere in Canada could meet and share a conversation because they both have the ability to communicate in the same language. Amazing.
Because the ability to communicate in depth with other homo sapiens is one of our most distinguished privileges, we should never take that ability for granted. Instead, we should do all we can to increase our ability to have worthy conversation with the individuals around us. Think about all of the opportunities you have each day to engage another human being in conversation. You can talk to rocks, trees, or your favorite stuffed animal for as long as you want and you will never get a response. Saying something as simple as "hello" to another person can elicit a response.
One of the best ways to get worthy at conversation with other individuals is simply to practice. Take every opportunity that presents itself to learn the art of making worthy conversation with other people. Start by saying hello to the individuals you pass on the street. Ask the person who is checking you out at the grocery store or the teller at the bank how they are doing and question if they are enjoying their day. Learn to respond with more than just one word when somebody asks you a question. You will be surprised at how quickly you learn about conversation by doing small things such as these.
One of the things that is necessary for getting worthy at conversation is to really care about individuals and the things that they care about. It will be much easier to have a worthy conversation with somebody if you are engaged and really caring about the things they are saying. There is nothing worse than trying to carry on conversation with somebody that is disinterested in it. So commit to asking individuals questions that you really want to know the answers to and you'll be a step ahead when it comes to making worthy conversation.
The ability to have worthy conversation is valuable because it is unique to humans. Enjoy the privilege you have to learn from others and to share wisdom with them by getting worthy at conversation.
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Martin Stoleman has learned the value of worthy conversation and is determined to teach others to value communication as well. See more at www.conversationtimes.info
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